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Joseph Edward Panik, 67, of Cheboygan, Michigan, died February 28, 2026, having lived as full a life as any human can live. Born November 25, 1958, in Lumberton, North Carolina, to Joseph and Phyllis Panik (Salmon), he is survived by his father; his wife, Michelle Panik (Melotte); his four children, Nichole (Adam) Earle, Kirk (Jon) Panik, Ashley (Dave) Thompson, and Misty (Daniel) Burns; his six grandchildren, Mackenzie, Domino, Trinity, Lux, Emma, and Dylan; and his siblings, Gina (Greg) Spencley and Carla (Mark) Gering, as well as treasured in-laws, nieces, and nephews. Preceded in death by his mother, Phyllis, he will be laid to rest next to her at Oak Hill Cemetery.
Joe was no ordinary man. He was a born storyteller, sharp-witted, and, by his own admission, not always the best at sharing. He was a strong and gentle man who loved his family first and the great outdoors of Northern Michigan second. A devoted son, father, brother, and adoring husband, he was the hardest worker in any room: a GM retiree turned restaurateur and, later, a proud business owner with unmatched confidence.
Warm and loyal, he was a fighter, an orator, a leader, a collector of lost souls, and a vigilant friend. He could spark joy and infectious rage in equal measure, and his charisma filled every space he entered. He was a history buff and political junkie, a skilled debater, a hunter, constant gardener and landscaper, handyman, creative woodworker, chef, chatty bartender, boat captain, fisherman, interior decorator, and an eager Christmas light installer. He was relentless with home improvement projects, never held a grudge, and was a fierce protector of his family. Joe loved people and hearing their stories, whether he was at the grocery store or touring Italy.
An amateur poet and friend to all, he was always ready to impart his wit and wisdom. He was the best “girl grandpa” that ever was; a survivor; an amputee who refused to be defined by limitation; a lifelong Detroit Lions and Tigers fan; a softball coach; harsh food critic; grill master; and the first person you called when you needed a hand. He was the toughest, strongest man we ever knew, a skilled worrier, an artist, a card shark, and a confidant. We will miss his late-night talks and his unbelievable stories. He leaves a hole too big to fill, far too soon. We love you, Dad, and we will never stop.
Funeral arrangements to follow.
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